“Get better every week.”
That’s a phrase Connor Shellenberger writes down in his notebook on a weekly basis. In college, he’d listen to music before games. Now, he reviews that message to himself before each game in the PLL.
Shellenberger is an old soul. An avid golfer, he takes inspiration from Scottie Scheffler about the importance of being present. That’s why he diligently takes notes with pen and paper, avoiding the distractions that screens present.
“If you text Connor Shellenberger, you don’t get a text right back,” Shellenberger’s head coach at Virginia, Lars Tiffany, said. “He is really good at being where his feet are.”
The MVP finalist is the personification of a lax rat. He’s obsessed with every aspect of the game. In college, he’d spend hours in the coaches’ offices at UVA, hunkered down with offensive coordinator Sean Kirwan or Kevin Cassese. He’d break down film of other great players as he tirelessly searched for ways to incorporate different techniques into his game. He’s fundamentally cerebral and curious in his approach to bettering himself.
“He’s such a student of the game,” Tiffany said.
That obsession with improving is paired with an intense internal pressure that both motivates him and, at times, catches up with him.
Shellenberger originally committed to Johns Hopkins in eighth grade. He was the top recruit in his class for years throughout high school. He led Virginia to an NCAA championship in his freshman season. He was the No. 2 pick in the 2024 College Draft and was thrust into the New York Atlas starting lineup in his professional debut.
At every level, on every team he’s played for, he’s been looked to as the guy the moment he stepped on the field. Tiffany often says that “pressure is a privilege.” In Shellenberger’s case, the pressure comes from the otherworldly standard he holds himself to. He’s his own harshest critic.
“Shelly, great game!” Atlas offensive coordinator Steven Brooks told him after one of Shellenberger’s four seven-point performances this summer.
“Sorry, Coach,” Shellenberger responded. “I missed those two [shots] on the backside. I’ve got to finish those.”
“He beats himself up more than people think because of how much of a competitor he is,” Brooks explained. “He hates losing more than anything.”